H.R., do you have a job you always wanted to do? Does it require training?

Maybe your change is to go back to school and get training for something better, something flexible or challenging or whatever you would like out of a job. Maybe going to school away from your current town is one way to deal with what you are going to do with the rest of your life. There are loans that could support you while paying for school. It would be tight, but could be worth it.

And at 24? To be settled down? You have some time. And maybe you don't want to be married at all. That's your call and yours alone. People are weird. They like confirmation that their lifestyle is normal. I'm telling you your life is normal.

Your T is just checking to make sure you're not going into a mania because taking off or wanting a major change like you're suggesting could be a sign. But you're also 24! You are just building your life. What you want is normal. And guess what! You will have this question at various times in your life. I did a major move at fifty to go back to school-all the way across the country. On my own. To a place I had no-one-no friends or family.

Now such a move could trigger a mania. I made sure I had healthcare where I was going, and I have been very lucky to find a superior health care team. That is a consideration when you move that there are shrinks and therapists where you are going.