I understand what you're saying.

My husband does not know I post here. If he did, I would have to edit my words carefully and I don't feel that it's therapeutic to do so. As it is, I have had posts taken down, not because of him, but because they are revealing.

IF I thought he did watch me here, I would figure out a way to become more anonymous or I would simply find another forum.

I would think if your husband was watching you, then he wouldn't tell you. Not that I think he's the sneaky type, but common sense says that if you knew, you would edit what you say also....So his information would be less.

Fortunately, you can be someone else, here. It is more difficult as you have to also talk about more obscure things and add in a few "borrowed" issues. But that's easy enough to do.

Hugs. PM any time.