I saw her log onto a chat we used to go to but she left before I could say anything, she also broke it off with the rest of her friends in that room. I know her both online and IRL. I just feel I want to tell her it is really not my fault she blocked me and cut me off, I want to tell her it hurt me. I'm not sure why I want to say those things because she seems not to understand. So I have not talked to her for months.

With my friend it is also one sided, she can talk about her for hours. In a way I understand because she seems somewhat lost in the world. She does not get nasty if I talk about me but either she ignores me or tells me she has it much worse and that's that. I'm not allowed feelings. When one of my best online friends died of illness I was sad and I told her, I had known him for years and she had spoken with him once. She started crying because poor her that she can't talk to him anymore. And that was that.

Seems like a mix of not fully understanding that other people have feelings, and some I would almost say narcissism. It is hard friendships to have, but I also think those feel genuinely hurt by things that are just normal life and not meant to hurt them. I think it is important to know they probably don't often hurt people on purpose with great planning, but more because of poor communication skills and an inability to understand other people's emotions.

But I'm just guessing.

I wish the professionals would take over and then I mean maybe both meds and a true investigation what they suffer from, plus therapy or life skills training after that.