Does anyone else feel like the way you look does or does not fit your personality? I felt like being 236 pounds did not fit my quiet, some traits of selective mute, sometimes anxious, autistic personality. I felt like maybe if I lost weight I would feel more like who I am. So I started losing weight, and I am 171 now, and I feel like the way I look, fits my personality better. I still have 31 pounds to lose, but I already feel a lot better. Both physically but now I feel like I look like who I actually am. Am I making sense? Can someone help me figure out what I mean?