She never responded back, so I moved on. The downside of OKC is there are very few LGBT girls in my area and none worthwhile.

So I've messaged a ton of guys, a couple have responded. But I just stumbled upon a gem of a potential date. Hopefully it works out. If not, keep on looking.

I think this time now out of all the years spent on OKC have I made a true effort to find a date. I think it's because if I let the guys come to me, it's like Chat Roulette and they only want sex. If I make the effort, one, studies show girls who reach out have more likely to find a date and two, I get to select and choose who I think would be a good date.

So I keep on truckin'.