Thankyou so much, it helps to know people understand...he came home from work, read a poem and an e.mail I wrote to him and he replied with lovely words, I posted them in cc. I just wanted to share really, maybe I shouldn't have thinking about it, but I asked him and he said it was ok. He has a way with words lol....

I know loves me, that's not the point here, I just want him to show it.... I'll work on him lol.

Thanks for the replies, I feel much better this morning. Love you, Jin xxxxxx