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Originally Posted by Erebos
Because they are lonely,unfulfilled, depressed, they want their egos stroke and some reassurance they still have "it."
Exactly the same reasons married woman do exactly the same thing.
You have already had great advice so no point in adding my 2 cents.
I merely wanted to point out this isn't a guy thing or a girl thing, it's a human thing.
perhaps the very reason he is being like that around you because of the boundaries you employ.
He is secure in knowing you won't get entangled, regardless of how these fantasies in his head play out.
However, it makes you uncomfortable, so do what you need to feel safe and carry on.
All the best.Take care.
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Damn right it makes me feel uncomfortable. But sometimes I just go along because I don't want to rock the boat and as others have noticed I have a crap load of more important heavy stuff on my plate. It is just that Mike can be very solicitous as narcs can. No...the flirting married man stuff...like Eew. I find it extremely distasteful/crude and rude to their partners. That is really why I started this post. Yes, a person thing. I heard you. Thanks.
