This is a topic I know zero about, I have never 'dated' but equally I haven't had any problems finding a partner.
I wonder if this comes down to just not looking.
Some just met and we clicked, others were friends before we figured we liked each other.
Most recently I met up with a guy I have known for two years through online gaming.
We met just because we happened to be in town on the same day thought it would be good to go for coffee and talk face to face. We have now been together for 6 months.

The one thing these guys had in common? We met through mutual interests. Music, agricultural college, animal rescue and gaming.
I suppose what I am getting at is I am not sure about the wisdom in looking specifically for a bf. Sometimes it's when we aren't looking that things turn up.

Anyway, take care of yourself first and the rest will follow.

Incidentally did spend 6 years single too, and that was great for me because I really learned what I did and didn't want.
What I would and wouldn't put up with. And it taught me not to be afraid of being alone.