I appreciate it. I don't think she wouldn't come back to me anytime soon. She seems to have other priorities than to make her marriage work. She just seems nonchalant about everything. We actually talked on the phone for an hour the other day (She called me out of nowhere) but it didn't seem to solve anything. She still isn't giving me the truth about everything. It just made me more upset that after 10 years she just can't be honest about things or atleast say she is sorry. I need to initiate the NO CONTACT with her, but it's hard when you have children involved. It just seem like the only time she wants to talk is if she needs me to watch our kids cause she has to work or so on so forth. It's never about our marriage. She told me that she didn't want to file for divorce but she would do a legal separation if it came down to it. That confused me as to why she would do that but not file for divorce. I know she wouldn't initiate that either though, cause it would have already been done by now if that was the case. I'm getting better day to day though. I think I'm almost at the acceptance stage in this whole fiasco. Can everyone give me tips on how to do the Bo Contact with kids? I don't want her to think that she can run over me, but I'm afraid if I say no to picking up my kids, I'll be viewed as a bad father or that I don't care. We have a schedule but there is legitimate times to where she has work or school(I verified) that she does need help. Plus my kids start up Baseball and it's going to be tough seeing her at games....I know it's easy to say be cordial and act like it doesn't bother you but it does bother me
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