when i was growing up i was a wild one i won't go there but there was point in my life after the wild was tamed when i had a wife who treated me well and 2 step kids that didn't have the every other weekend thing going on and they were 5 and 7 when we became our own family it was very uplifting for 12 of the 14 years during this time i spent a lot of time with the family and i had 3 hobbies powerlifting, bow hunting white tailed deer and fishing all of which have gone away including the family.