Seeing as though more insight would have actually helped me. I had someone insult my intelligence probably because you just don't get that question everyday also because they went on to help without our permission. Had I been more diligent and in the know this would have a been a great idea to maintain my functioning with a creative more conscious involved patient approach like myself . In general though it would be hurtful and counter productive. It is just that I lost my career and am still hurting from that intervention. Hindsight, you can go back and study your own self and get some of this correct reading research helps with that....Debilitating anxiety presents with such and such self state switch etc is totally unaware might need a re parenting approach. Is she spiritual unchurched reminds me of my druggy days? Is she still being abused.....reminds me of myself in ways....Just from personal experience