Thank you for your quick reply. I am aware of all the red flags that have come up in our relationship, but he just can't seem to let this one go. I am truly hoping therapy helps and talking to other people that don't know us I think will help gain some insite as well.

As of today he said he would trust me and that he was no longer hiring a PI...but he is constantly telling me that I need to fix this and that he was used by me back in December and I need to change that.

I don't know how I can fix this. I don't have any contact with that other man. I have apologized immensely. I have beggged and pleaded for forgiveness. I have been very remourseful. And every time he accepts my apology he says that he'll let it go and move forward only to come back to it three months down the line hating me for what I did.