Excellent point old_one. Too often we make judgments without inquiring. We assume too often and that can solely be based on our moods at the time which are being influenced by something unrelated.

Where has the confidence gone? We lack confidence in our own judgment, we lack confidence in others we once did trust, confidence in friendship and family. Has society made us too cynical and mistrusting? We need to allow ourselves to feel love at times. Simple love for things we normally pass by or over.