Yeah Sab is right I know that when I try to fix something and I can't I tend to walk away...that being said when I walk away I think about the problem and the best way to approach it. Your husband is probably doing the same thing.

And Old is right too, make a list of things that makes you happy about him have him do the same thing for you. My wife and I every anniversary talk (alone) about one thing that was great this past year and one thing that we could work on. It usually works really well for us...it makes me communicate in a way that is not defensive.

But right now what you need is
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((JINN))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Dragon