((((msinfiniti))))

I'm so sorry you are giong through this. Your husband has his own issues and he is handling them in a very selfish and uncaring way. But as i said in my previous post, you need to take care of you right now.

I know it is hard, love doesn't just go away no matter how he treats you. You still feel what you feel. But you have to step back and let it go for your own state of mind. You need to be a little selfish yourself right now, and that is ok. You can be a little selfish, and take care of yourself, without hurting others and there is nothing wrong with that.

There is nothing 'wrong' with you, you are just hurting. That is totally understandable. And you can 'get over' him. It will take time but the pain will go away. You are on an emotional roller coaster right now and the only way to make it stop is to just say 'that's it, i'm done'.

Breaking up is always hard, especially someone you have loved for 7 years, but there comes a point where you have to let go. You can't change his behavior and make him be the loving and caring man you fell in love with. Its time to take care of you and find your own happiness.

You can live without him, eventually you will even be happy again even if that doesn't seem posible right now.