Your profile pic is great!
I drive an hour to hang out with the guy I met on OkC...just a really good friend now, but I drove down there for our first date. It was something we talked about being a potential issue, but I feel that, even for a friendship, he's worth it. It isn't as far as it sounds.
Yeah, I found that the downside of OkC is that there is some spam to weed through. My guy friend says I don't deal with nearly as much as he does, though.