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Originally Posted by graystreet
I don't think he would really know how to do this or have any desire to do so, with anyone. Given an option between putting the mental effort into a relationship required to control someone and being alone, I'm pretty sure he'd rather just be alone. Any control would be because I let the situation control me, not because he exerts it.
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"he said that would be the last of the discussion or he would be done"
That's controlling behavior and words, not to mention threatening type words. (Either or else.) Ultimatum stuff. Not the kind of stuff on which a friendship is built.