Alex, you are so brave for sending that email.

I do not think that you telling your T about your attachment issues worried him into sickness. If that was the case, my T would be in quarantine by now.

Since I work inpatient, I see patients when they are sick. I already caught some virus-thingy this autumn. I don't know if it was from someone with attachment issues or not :-)

Seriously, I think you took a wonderful risk. You are really opening up and allowing him to see different parts of yourself.