Your vet sounds like she probably has some idea when it comes to animal care; but she does; however; totally suck in the people skill's department!

I've had my fair share of dealings of people who have absolutely no interaction skills what so ever - they've been rude and arrogant. It upset me quite a bit at first; but then I had to take 10 steps back and remind myself it's them, not me; hold my head up high; and carry on with my day.