I've given alot of thought to my situation and why I've chosen to stay.. (at this stage) I do love my husband and even though I don't understand his behaviour I can understand his choices. I know my marriage will never be the same but I'd like to give it one more try with all the cards on the table.. If the connection is really gone and if I can't forgive him then "so be it" but I want to know for sure. Is my live unconditional? Can I forgive him ? Who knows till I try. Will he love me again? sho knows until i give him the chance.