I kinda lost my ish on my friend last night. He's pretty understanding but I snapped hard at him over text and, while he is never mean and I've never seen him angry, he put me in my place pretty definitively (probably because he is rarely stern or angry). One stern text in reply to a little moody tantrum was all it took

I told him that maybe it was a good idea to give me a little space and time to get acclimated to this switch so I didn't hurt our friendship over something as inane as switching to third shift. Even before I snapped, I told him I could have pretty much argued and/or cried about anything. I still feel that way. No bueno.