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I was thinking about your daughter's "hawt" remark and wondering if somewhere in her mind she connects T to the divorce and was wondering if you have feelings for T and that it might be the reason for the divorce.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">Well, sheesh, I hope not! The marriage problems preceded my beginning therapy with my T (by a long time), so I hope she puts two and two together. Plus, at our family session, T was very professional (as he always is) and certainly wasn't flirting with me or doing anything inappropriate like that to mislead my daughter. But, you know, there is some truth to a connection between my T and my divorce because before I started seeing him, I was unable to move forward with ending my marriage. I was profoundly stuck, and he helped me move beyond that. Really, I am not sure I could have got this far on the divorce without him (and I'm still not done). And my daughter does know that my husband and I have seen T for couples counseling. So she knows there is a connection with the marriage ending. She's just so sad. But in the past few years, she has been so angry about the state of our marriage/family. So we're ending it, which is good. But hard for her. And everyone.

Thanks, ECHOES.