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Erebos · Mar 16, 2017, 05:19 AM

Totally respect,that choice. I picked ACE to describe myself as it the closest I can get to explaining to others. Eugh.
But no, a high sex drive pretty much rules out any chance your asexu
Your fantasies pretty much describe me and my partners sex life. Except, I sub,so control is something I gladly concede

Possible trigger:

Thankfully he has no qualms about being pretty brutal and demanding. We have safe word's and the rules and boundaries were set right at the beginning. I have never felt unsafe. It's difficult to explain because whilst I get intimate satisfaction it isn't sexual.
I have no doubt there will be people who find my preference for violence during sex distasteful.

It's hard to tell from what your saying wether you have a physical issue with intercourse, or just bloody awful experiences have now caused you to be apprehensive about penetration, or people touching you at all.

Also masturbation, as fun as it is, can get you into a fixed pattern of how to bring yourself off, and if you do that a lot, it becomes damn near impossible to achieve an orgasm any other way.
So maybe if your seeing somebody new take a break from the self fulfilment.
I do hope it works out well, and your relationship blossoms. I am certain that once your over the unknown factor you will be fine. Just take your time getting there.