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Originally Posted by justxholdon
And thank you s4ndm4n2006 - what you've taken the time to write was hard to read but ultimately very truthful.
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You're welcome. I believe that some of the hardest things to face are the most impacting and life changing truths in life. Again, though, not assuming that I know the entire truth here.
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But my fear is that my current mental state is distorting things.
That if I was not in such a deep dark place for lack of a better way of putting it that I wouldn't be so resentful and dissatisfied.
Maybe I would then feel what she does if I was capable?
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here's what I thought when I just read this part of your response. I do understand your considering your own state of mind and whether things are being skewed. What you've stated are things that are quite difficult to really put a spin on. If she blocks your view or intrudes upon you in certain instances, that's fact. Either she does the things you say or she doesn't. Your perceptions of why someone may do such things could be biased and skewed by mental state but I feel no matter how you look at it her behavior is very likely intrusive and manipulative. I don't see how this can be a skewing of reality unless you were to be making things up, which I don't feel you are.
Going out on a limb here, let's say that your perception of things is darkened by your mental state. considering the situation, it's understandable and for me, anyway, it's not a reason to consider sticking around, but another red flag as to why perhaps you should not be in this relationship. It underscores, not minimizes the reason to get out.
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My sibling suggested the same, and had even offered up examples of how he'd ended things but shared out a lease anyway.
It's def things to think about. Thank you all very much.
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Hope this helps