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Originally Posted by Patagonia
I confronted one of my abusers & the situation was very different. I was young & did it more out of revenge. I confronted him the night before he got married.
Touché.
Put what you need to into the letter. Seal it. Hang onto it & see if this act brings you closure you're looking for.
Then ask why it did or why it did not. Then decide what you'd like to do.
If you're not expecting anything from him....what if he does decide to reply. Are you ready for that.
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If he replies, it doesn't matter. I don't trust anything he says. I doubt he'll even admit to himself what happened, much less to me. It's much too late for remorse and 'sorrys'. Nothing he could say could make me feel any better or worse. What I am hoping will make me feel better is telling him just how disgusting he is and how much I want him dead. I think I would get a great deal of satisfaction from that. My hope is that it will alleviate some of the rage.
I like what you said about hanging on to it for awhile before making a decision. I think that's the wisest course for me. Thank you!
WW