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Originally Posted by bluebicycle
Did he actually say "mature"? If so, I don't like his wording. Implying you're "immature" is definitely not okay.
It's one thing to sob on the phone and say "you're a stupid poopie head!", but your decision was not immature or based on immature feelings.
Regardless, I think he does mean well when he says he wants to talk to you before you take a break with him. I can't tell you whether or not he's trying to lure you in to continuing therapy because I don't know him, but I think if you do go to that appointment that you're of sound mind to determine whether or not he wants to lure you in.
Has he tried to lure you in before?
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Yeah, he said "mature". That statement irritated me on the inside.
No, I've never been lured before, this is the first time I called on a break bold and clear.
It's just that the meetings with him felt like they're buttered - swaying away from the topics I want to focus on, such as mood states and other internal things like sexual identity. He's not giving answers, only wanting to put practical focus, quite frequently giving a meeting epilogue of "We can use the meetings to do X", "Let us see how we can solve Y" and other such quotes of future expectations, without FOCUS!
Sometimes I'd feel like I'm talking to a wall.
During our first meetings, I intensively laid out most or all my problems, and he'd just go "yes, those are many problems, but overtime it will all drain a bit and we can put focus on more specific topics."
He's never been doing any part in this...