I am so glad you gave him the paper on erotic transference and I like the reassurance he gave you. He means that too, I can tell.
I think he said it in just the right way where it doesn't encourage dependence but gives you the safety net to be secure in the relationship so you can heal.
I'm happy for you Pink!!!!
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