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Originally Posted by Patagonia
I hate to play devils advocate here, but I'm thinking yes sending it could give you relief & grief.
What if he replies & twists all ur words around & basically belittles you, your feelings, emotions etc etc.
He'd have that last word. Knowing my nature I'd hate that & hate all the self doubt that might start again.
But that is just me & my thinking. He sounds like he won't admit it & just try to blame you.
Would you be strong enough for that?
You just don't want this to be a setback in your progress.
Do you have a support system?
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Of course he'd twist my words and try to belittle you. He can only do that if I let him. Just because he responds, doesn't mean I have to read it. They already try to blame me, so that's nothing new.
Yes I have a strong support system. They're mixed in their opinions, which is why I asked the question here.