anger is a human emotion ... I do not want to be "angry " at myself or others .... I do not want others to be "angry" at me .... but ... it can happen ... it is not the anger that is unhealthy but what we do with it ... if it is there and we "swallow" it ... it will fester and eat a hole in you ... if we "blow" up at others with it ... relationships can be forever damaged ... if we ignore it ... then I think a part of us dies ... are we to accept hate and cruelity in the world ... or does it make us angry ... it is what we do with that most human of emotion ... that defines who we are ... JMO... your friend .. Tigger.