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Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky
What do you mean by "official"? If you weren't together yet, then it's not so terrible in my opinion.. also, what makes you think he's changed? If he hasn't been cheating on you for more than a year, then he might be tellign the truth.
Often, people don't cheat becuase they don't love - sometimes they're just not sexually satisfied, or maybe others just want to break the "rules", I think it varies. I think you should talk with this to him if you haven't already  |
Thanks for your response! We have. And we've had a lot of fights because of it. We weren't official at the time because i wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend (i'm in the right age, my parents just want me to finish college first), but we were already saying "I love you" and the commitment was clear between us both.
Though sometimes he flirts with other women. I'm not sure if it's because of his job? He's in the sales industry. And he's quite attractive (tall, dark, handsome, charming, into sports, into theatre play) and the fact that many women like him also makes me insecure (relationship-wise)... maybe i shouldn't date super attractive guys. The emotional and mental stress that it causes... it's kind of hard to be in a relationship when it's the center of attraction. I really like him but I want to be lowkey. You know.