for many years i knew that my father was going to die from heart disease. I took all of the time I could with him and still cherish those memories. Now that he's gone I don't feel the need for "closure" I have a photo alblum of him that i can go to and it turns my sorrow to joy over the time we did have. this is my "closure"...knowing that the bond of love between us in life will never die and that he lives on in me.