Malady,

that's really a well thought out suggestion and a good one! i need to do that and it needs to be enough. right now, one thing i don't like is...we're hiding. there's a fear here...not a physical fear, but we're definitely hiding for a reason.

I have been helping in the realm that you talked about. for instance, the dr was going to allow him to go home which was not a good idea! it's the reason he ended up back in the hospital in dire shape. he doesn't have the care he needs. in fact, the woman that's staying there is a severe alcoholic who picks on him, etc when drinking. he's too ill for that. i explained that to the dr and he agreed that he would be better in a rehab facility for a couple of weeks as he's getting stronger.

however, this morning there has already been two calls from his home (probably that woman) that i couldn't bring myself to answer and scared to check the voice mail. this is really messing with us. i need to get this under control but it's escalating. there is an intense fear and anxiety building. i know it's past stuff. i'm sure of it. i need to get to the root of it so i can do what i need to do, but someone just wants to hide

your suggestion is a great one and i thank you for it. i need to get the emotions here in line to do just exactly what you suggested.

thank you again,

kimmydawn