I completely know what you're talking about. I had the cleanest language ever and then one time I was upset and blurted out, "I feel like such a F*cking Loser!" and immediately said, "I'm so sorry!" and covered my mouth. As I was apologizing she said, " A f*cking loser?! You are NOT a F*cking loser! Why do you think that you're a F*cking Loser???" So she said it 3x in about 5 seconds so I knew that it was ok to say it. I've only sworn a few other times and she does NOT seem to mind. I have never heard her swear other than repeating my swears, but I honestly do not think that she cares one bit.

I would recommend that the next time you feel like swearing, do so and see how she reacts. If she seems to mind, simply apologize. I really think that we should be free to be who we are in therapy.

Good luck!