JunkDNA, when I reread the post you made after you saw T, it seems like he threw not seeing you out as an option, and then was clear to say it's up to you, you are in control of whether you do or don't. I think if you reach out again by phone and schedule an appointment sooner than you planned, he will be there for you. Don't let the texting issues get in the way of the real relationship. Sometimes things get muddled when we don't talk in person.