hi kebs, its nice to hear from you

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It is so easy to assimilate the negativity of those around us when we are run down and over extended. This seems especially true when our own family is involved. Without the support of your siblings the weight of your responsibilities becomes more intense.

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exact... that is what i'm trying to prevent... to avoid this becoming co-dependant... i'm not gonna buy into the door slamming behavior... i believe in discussion and resolution... i admit my own temper tantrum behaviour at times though...

now i feel guilty that i don't allow her to have a bad moment of her own...