Yeah I know what you mean about disappointment. I think I've come to realize that many people are already fighting battles within themselves, ones that we don't know about. People can't give you the answers they are looking for because they don't have them. I know how maddening that can be. But I've also found that if I keep looking, I will eventually find what I need, sometimes in myself...sometimes it comes from an outside source that says just the right thing. It's like putting together a puzzle...so maddening sometimes when you can't find that one piece...but then you do and it triggers a bunch of pieces to fall into place quickly.