I read many posts in the Relationships and Communications forum where a husband/boyfriend would abuse his wife/girlfriend even physically, and yet, the wife/girlfriend would say "But I still love him .... " (in your case you say you are emotionally attached, and I am not quite sure what that means). I wanted to ask this question so many times why a woman would love someone who abuses/abused her. I am curious to know the answer for this as well.