Hi Gabriel,

I feel for you because I am in a similar situation. The difference with me is that I have absolutely no interest in sex. I never daydream about it, think about it, or have it. I am a happily married woman with a terrific husband who has to be the most patient man in the world. It has been at least a year since I have had sex. I no longer find it to be enjoyable nor the least bit entertaining.

I don't hate sex; I just don't have any feelings for it anymore. I really miss this part of my life and the intimacy with my husband. I used to enjoy a very healthy and a quite enjoyable sex life. Now all is gone.

I am confused, irritated, and have no idea how to "fix" myself. I can admit that I ruminate about my confusion daily and am not sure that I am asexual or am just forced into celibacy due to lack of interest. UGH

Yes, I can relate in my own way. The difference is that you can say that you hate it. I can't say that I have any feelings for it at all.

Maybe both of us will find an answer where we will have less confusion.

Take Care,
Peacemaker