in my earlier post I mentioned womens pleasure spots.. not all the places that give women pleasure are "down there" for example a woman will enjoy back and neck massages where as most if not all men it does not bring them any sexual pleasure to have their neck massaged. why because most men go through times in their lives where due to work requirements or comfort they have to shave their necks and wear hear above their neck line. their necks are exposed in some way so their necks dont always develop that same skin texture with sensitive nerves behind the neck or behind the ears. close to the jaw line. most men past puberty their skin is that roughness of course whiskers and "5 o'clock shadow" another pleasure spot for women is the lower back, and another place on a female body that most find to be a pleasure spot is the arch of their feet and the webbing like part of the hands between the thumb and forefinger. a womans thighs, belly button and scalp too are pleasure spots....

my point is on a female body there are many different spots on the body that gives a woman that intense MMnnnnn a little to the left please, aaahhh right there, that feels sooo good right there kind of feeling.

suggestion to anyone who doesnt know where their own pleasure spots are the next time you are taking your shower or bath take time in the process to notice whats going on and how it makes your body feel. that will tell you where your "pleasure spots" on your body are.

I agree with the other poster.. since actual intercourse of both male and females is a turn off for you then right now maybe dating isnt the right thing for you. most people go out on dates for the relationships and building into a sexual relationship. entering into a date with out informing the person you cringe and get turned off with anything sexual is not a good thing to do to someone.

suggestion maybe this girl you want to date and you can sit down and talk about what each expects out of the relationship, this way you both will be able to make an informed decision as to whether you want to go on a romantic date together that will be cut short and leaving one possibly hanging with dis satisfaction, or just continue to be friends.