Hello everyone!
I was sexually abused as a child (i am currently 18) and i have never really coped with it until recently. I have begun to accept it and work through it.
One issue that I am facing right now is dating.
I am currently dating a guy that does not know about the abuse, nor do i plan to tell him. He is perfect-he always asks questions to know my boundries and would never make me do anything i dont want to. He really makes me happy and i REALLY like him.
But i am tempted to run. I feel like i am getting too close to him and i just constantly feel uncomfortable whenever i think of having sex with him, or even just meeting up with him again(we are long distance). I believe this all stems back to my abuse.
I just wanted to know if any of you have experience with this and how you worked through it.