My husband and I can't get along for more than a few weeks at a time. It's been like this for 4 years. We've been married for 2. I keep hoping this will change and we do talk and try to find resolution for our issues, but they don't seems to stick for very long, and then we start the cycle all over again.
He's a doctor and practices psychotherapy, and I don't have the luxury of going to marital counseling with him because he refuses to go.
He feels like no one is going to be able to tell him anything he doesn't already know, and that he is one of the best at what he does.
I feel like he is the judge and the jury, and if anyone were to hear some of the things he says to me, they would certainly wonder how he can save everyone else's marriage, but not his own.
Never-the-less, I am very sad; overwhelmingly sad. I feel hopeless. I know I should let go of this marriage, but I can't seem to bring myself to do it.
Our relationship is like 2 magnets; we are either completely and blissfully stuck to each other, or we are at each other's throats. It's sick.
He has threatened to leave a dozen times, he threatens me with a lot of things, and I think sometimes, he does it to watch me try and pull him back again. And, I always do.
sorry this was so lengthy....