I have a dear friend whose basically embraced this sort of confusion. What he does is he watches gay porn but he sleeps with a woman. He claims it's sort of a forbidden exotic type of feel to it, he says it turns him on. I personally think it's the %#@&#! thing...but then again there's male/female %#@&#! porn as well.

I like to watch girl on girl myself, and I'm a chick. I agree with my friend that it's different and exciting...exotic. I'll even daydream of it occasionally. But when it comes down to it I wouldn't actually get groovy with a girl.

Fantasies seem to fuel curiosity and they run hand in hand. I wouldn't worry or fear that you're gay. Men fear that entirely to much because of societal pressures.