For me, such comments are kind of an impersonal, "comic book" sort of remark and I don't need that? When my name isn't used or something specific to what it is that makes him think that ("You look lovely in that dress") there's kind of the sense that they could be looking at a picture in Playboy and come up with the same comment? That's maddening. I want to be appreciated for "Me" right here, right now.