I'm sorry, a man, no matter how good a friend, comments on my weight or appearance in a derogatory way, and it might upset me. Women get judged SO much for our looks, we don't need it from our close friends and family. And what if she was pregnant? What if she started medication that made her gain weight? It's very insensitive.

Maybe she removed you from social media because she felt you were looking at her pics and judging her?

All that said, I do agree her reaction was a little over the top. Why not just call you out on it in the moment and say, "that's really mean, man." And likely you would have apologized immediately.

So I wonder if there's other stuff in your relationship that you're not saying?

Give her time. People have a right to their own emotions. Clearly she's still upset a bit.

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