I guess I'll know after my date with this girl if she's promising, and I know my plan of action if they're both promising. It just seems weird to date more than one person at a time. With OKC I message more than one person, then had one date, didn't work out, so moved onto the most promising one. I don't want a million offers, so I'm glad there's only two I'm looking at and I won't message anyone else until neither of them work out.