wow..i guess i am blessed, T read letters outside of session. But i never give him anything until the end of session. i often talk about some of what is in the letters anyway.

talk to her specifically about this and see if you can find a way to make a compromise.

you can ask her to return to the letters after a session or two... so you can regain connection now.. i think that is more important and should be there before dealing with any other issues