(((((((((( inny ))))))))))
What you and your ex are going through is not unusual in my mind. You have a history together. Even though you have broken up, you are still living in the same household. Living that closely with him makes it even more difficult to give up the relationship. Aside from that, even though you have both agreed to break it off, doesn't mean that feelings just disappear and friendship is all there is. I think it's inevitable that one party can break away more easily than the other. You may have been more ready to let go than he was (or is). Does this mean that he is wanting to get back together again? Maybe, maybe not. I think that time and space between the both of you will help him to "get over" the relationship and finally let it go. It takes time and it's like a grieving process when a relationship ends. Many emotions to work through...on both parts.
It's a hard situation in many respects. I hope you can both work through it and stay positive and supportive of one another.
Hugssss
sabby
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