thanks....yea i think he is having a difficult time ...i am too its just been a long time since he has treated me like i am in this relationship....so i am just trying to distance myself and i think he doesnt "get it" ......even know ive told him time and time again...he thinks we might get back together later....after he becomes a lawyer and im a doctor...i dont know....i havent fueled that subject...i kinda just pretend i didnt hear it......i dont know what to say to that