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Old Mar 22, 2017, 05:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Erebos View Post
Being bi does not mean you get to have two separate love lives. The same rules of consideration apply as in every relationship.
There's too much focus on the fact that one date is a man and the other is a woman. It's exactly the same as if I was messaging two guys and two different guys wanted to date me and how would I choose between the two. It's not a difficult concept.

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Originally Posted by Erebos View Post
However we are talking about very early stages where no-one has made their mind up if they even want to see each other again.
That doesn't mean they shouldn't know.
I think everyone agrees, honesty is fair for everyone. I would want to know if it was me.
I'm not obligated to explain my sexuality on a first date, much like I wouldn't explain being bipolar on a first date, but if they want to know, I'd be honest.
Thanks for this!
Bill3