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Originally Posted by prefabsprout
What you describe - his reading this thread but not coming clean would have massively triggered me and I don't think MI comes into that, it's a trust issue. I'm not rushing to condemn him (there are worse things after all), it all depends on how it was dealt with afterwards, if you felt he explained or apologised for covering up.
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I am so nonconfrontational that I did not directly ask if he is still looking at this thread. It doesn't seem like it because things aren't coming up in conversation (in the accidental way that was happening last week) from the information in my postings. After all, most of the things I post are just routine things like: "I am sorry you had to go through that...blah, blah, blah" Sometimes he comes across to me as the most immovable man ever and he definitely would look again if he thought I was acting weird in anyway. I guess I accepted the way he is a long time ago and I am a big marshmellow....
But perhaps you are making a good point--maybe it's not that I am MI, just that I need to talk things over instead of sneaking around and letting my imagination run wild.....